In all conflicts there is a relationship between the people involved and a goal that each of them want. I introduced to students the 5 different ways that we handle conflict:
We discussed how each approach to resolving conflict ends with a variety of win/lose combinations. Each approach also values your relationship with the person and/or goal you want to achieve differently as well. Thinking about what is most important to you can help you when you are trying to resolve conflict.
Then we watched this adorable video that reviews Kelso's choices for them: